The High Holy Days are coming up soon; next month in fact.
SelicothThe evening of September 12 is Selicoth for us Jews. The name, Selicoth, is derived from the Hebrew word meaning, "I am sorry." From the beginning of the month of Elul - Friday, August 21 - until Selicoth is a time for taking stock of ourselves and making amends with those we have harmed in any way, great or small.
Rosh Ha Shana
Rosh Ha Shana begins at sundown on September 18, and ends at sundown on September 20. On these days we celebrate the new year of the Earth and the birth of Humankind.
Each year many of us do Tashlich as part of Rosh Ha Shana, throwing our sins into the water on pieces of bread, only to find that those same sins jumped out of the water and into our back pockets when we weren't looking. In your Jewish Spiritual Renewal you learn how to rid yourself of character defects, resentments, grudges, etc., for good. Are you on your path to Renewal and recapturing your Judaism?
Yom KippurWe go to Yom Kippur services, starting the evening of September 27 and ending at sundown on the 28th, and beat our chests as we rattle off an alphabetic list of sins. Some we have, some we don't. While we go through the list, many of us want to change, but by the next day, or definitely by Sukkoth, our selfish will - our ego - has taken over and we are back to where we were before Selicoth.
You can rid yourself of behavior that sets you apart from G!d and from your fellows.
You can tell your yetzer ha ra to get lost when it rationalizes that it is okay to do things that the "still small voice'' inside of you knows you'd be better off not doing.
There is further commentary on how to make the High Holy Days a more personal, spiritual experience (Chapter 13), and lessons on casting away your character defects, or Tashlich (Chapter 6), in my book,
The Handbook to Jewish Spiritual Renewal: A Path of Transformation for the Modern Jew. If you don't have a copy and would like one, you can get it here:
Let us all make this New Year a truly
new year and may we all be inscribed into the Book of Life.