Thursday, June 23, 2011

RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL: JEWISH SPIRITUAL RENEWAL :BALAK :CHUKAT: NEVER CURSE ANOTHER

RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL:
JEWISH SPIRITUAL RENEWAL :
BALAK :CHUKAT:
NEVER CURSE ANOTHER 
RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL : CHUMASH CANDESCENCE  : PARASHAT CHUKAT + BALAK : NUMBERS 19:01-25:07 



CHUMASH CANDESCENCE
PARASHOT CHUKAT
AND BALAK
NUMBERS 19:01-25:07
RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL

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"Smart Ass"

One definition of a smart ass is one who can sit on a falafel and tell you in what type of oil the chick peas were fried. In this week's double portion we will read, among other things, about Balaam's talking donkey.

A close inspection of our two portions, doubled so that we can catch up to our brothers and sisters in Israel who are a week ahead of us since the Shavuot holiday, will show a repeated theme of juxtaposition of opposites. There is a subtle interplay of antinomianism, where good becomes evil, evil becomes good, and where the holy becomes defiled and the defiled becomes holy. This shifting takes place through kavenah
(intention).

Our first of these two parashat, Chukot, begins with the law of the Red Heifer. This d'var Torah series discussed many aspects of this strange ritual in the special Shabbat called Parah (heifer), which preceded Pesach.

 

The Torah story is now 38 years after the Exodus. Aaron and
Miriam will die in this portion, and Moses is told that he will be dead in two years. Jews have been taught by Moses that they become impure when they come in contact with the dead. They are now taught that if they burn this perfect-looking red cow and sprinkle themselves with its ashes, they can become pure again. However the person doing the sprinkling becomes impure.

The Midrash in trying to explain this paradox sites examples of how evil fathers begot good sons, that is, Abraham from Terach, Ezekiel from Ahaz, and Josiah from Ammon. The Talmud reminds us that we are forbidden to drink blood as it's the source of life but that we are allowed to drink milk which is a baby's source of life (Tractate Niddah 9A). King Solomon said concerning this paradox in Proverbs 7:23, "I said I would be wise but it is far from me."

Rashi writes that when Numbers 19:14 says the cow should have no blemish, it means that it should be perfectly red in color. If there were two black hairs on it, the cow was disqualified. He then states that a Jew's perfection is disqualified by even the slightest "hairsbreadth" of dishonesty or deception.

We are told of Miriam's death. When she dies, the portable well told of in Talmud Tractate Ta'anit 9A dries. The Jews again rebel because of the lack of water. Yet this is the new generation. The old generation who griped and moaned is dying off. But their children sound just like the older generation! God tells Moses to speak to a rock and ask it for water.

 

 Moses, who just lost his sister and is burnt-out by this job he
never wanted, angrily strikes the rock twice. Water flows. God punishes Moses by telling him he will die in the wilderness and will not go into the promised land.

 

If you recall, back in Exodus 17:2-6, Moses also strikes a rock for water. God commands Moses in Exodus to take his staff
and strike the rock. This time Gods tell Moses to take his staff and speak to the rock. Maybe God was setting up Moses, giving him confusing instructions and giving him a way out of playing nursemaid to the Israelites. Ramban writes that this is the same rock from the Exodus story as well as the same rock from the Hagar and Ishmael story (Gen. 21:19).

The parasha is called "Chukat." Chukat are statutes that were to be obeyed traditionally even if we do not understand why. The word is related to "l'chakei," which means "to engrave or impress." Moses improvised on his own personal chuk. God punished him perhaps as a lesson to the Israelites to obey the Torah to its very letter.

Aaron is given an almost immediate death. Aaron does not hit the rock, yet he is punished. The Talmud teaches that Aaron's sin is not blessing God when the water gushes out. This non-blessing seemingly causes the Israelites to think that the water comes from Moses and not from God.


This new generation does not witness the miracle at Sinai, nor the ones in the desert, nor the greatest miracle of the Exodus from Egypt. This is the first miracle that this generation is to witness for themselves. Water was to come from a rock by Moses speaking to it in the name of God. Moses and Aaron steal the show.

The Israelites are again of little faith. They rebel over food as their parents did. God gives them a plague of poisonous snakes. Moses prays for a cure. Gods tell Moses to make a brass statue of a snake on a pole. If an Israelite looks at this image of a snake he will be cured from the bite of the real snake. One of our Ten Commandments is not to make any graven image. Our golden calf was forbidden, but this brass snake is allowed.

So far in our parasha we have learned of ashes that purify what was defiled and defile what was pure. We have read of a well that dried up when a righteous woman died and a rock that became a well when God was disobeyed. We are told that praying to a graven image of a snake will cure poisonous snake bites that came from praying (albeit complaining) to God for food.

There is a Talmudic doctrine of "mitzvah ha ba'ah ba-averah"--fulfilling a commandment by transgressing it. This a concept of redemption through sin. Wherever great holiness exists, there is also great evil. The Talmud teaches that a body of a dead religious Jew gives more defilement to someone who touches it than a nonreligious person's body. The Ba'al Shem Tov, the founder of Hasidism, wrote, "Evil is the throne of Good."

 

 In Kabbalistic terms there is constant interplay between the sephirot of chesed (kindness) and gevurah (justice). The rabbinic kabbalists believed that the Messiah will also purify what is defiled and defile what is pure in order to break the kelippah (husks) surrounding the nitzotzot (holy sparks) to do tikun olam (repair of the world).

 

Traditionally, we are taught that in the Messianic age man will be so pure that the Torah laws will not be needed and even pig meat will be kosher. Tractate Nazir 23B states that "a sin performed for its own sake is greater than a mitzvah performed for its own sake."

The Talmud in Tractate Moed Katan 28A states that the reason Miriam's death is mentioned right after the Red Heifer is to teach that "just as the ashes of the parah adumah (red heifer) atones, so does the death of  the righteous atone." The idea of a rabbi dying for his generation's sins is a traditional Jewish idea and not a foreign one.

In Torah terms, and certainly in agreement with the Kabbalistic
viewpoint, death is a technical term to describe transition. The Talmud in Tractate Bava Batra 15A asks how, if Moses wrote the whole Torah, he was able to write about his own death. The rabbis compromise and decide that Moses got all of the Torah from God, but taught these last few verses to Joshua, who wrote
them down.

 

But, according to the Zohar, one can die and still walk the
"face of the earth." The snake in the Garden of Evil gave us spiritual filth (zuhama). This prevents the body from rising to the level where the soul can bring it to a higher, eternal level (Tractate Shabbat 146A). When we rot in the ground we shed our spiritual filth and regain our ketonet ohr--clothing of light, that Adam wore before Eve chatted with the snake, and they ate from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil.

Evil, Rabbi Moses Chaim Luzzatto (the Ramchal) wrote, has only one purpose, and that is to be uprooted completely. We are to work to remove evil from its existence. During the Messianic age, he teaches, God will remove all evil and the world will "perceive His Unity and His perfection like a blinding light." Our Aleinu prayer near the end of our daily service calls for this to occur.

The human embodiment of evil is seen in our second of two parashat.  Balak is the King of Moab (modern Jordan). He fears for his kingdom because he has seen what the Jews have done to Sichon and Og, his neighbors. So he hires Balaam, the Prophet, to curse the Jews. To Balak, Balaam is his secret weapon.

 

 Balaam is called a prophet because he spoke with God. God tells Balaam not to be hired by Balak (Num. 12:12). When Balak heard that Balaam would not come, he assumed the price he
first offered was too low, and he increased it. Balaam made a
counteroffer. God then tells Balaam he can go, but only to say what God tells him to say (Num. 22:20).

Balaam "arose early in the morning and saddled his donkey" (Num. 22:21). While Balaam is on his way to curse Israel, his donkey sees an angel blocking the road three times. Each time the donkey veers to the side, and Balaam hits her. Balaam does not see this angel. Eventually Balaam does see the angel, and his curses become blessings.

"Whoever has three particular traits is counted among the students of Abraham, and whoever has three other traits is among the students of Balaam. He who has a good eye, humility and contentedness is a student of Abraham, while he who has an evil eye, arrogance and greed is a student of Balaam" (Mishna Pirkei Avot 5:22).

 

The Talmud Tractate Sanhedrin 102B reminds us that Abraham, when he was commanded by God to sacrifice Isaac,
also "arose early in the morning and saddled his donkey" (Gen. 22:03). In Hebrew the word for saddled (yach'vosh) is related to the verb "to conquer." The word for donkey (chamor) matches the word for physicality (chomer).

 

When Abraham saddled his donkey, he conquered his physical
drives of fear and love for his son in the service of God. When he went up to Mount Moriah he left his donkey, meaning his physical needs, behind (Gen. 22:05). Balaam gets up early to make a great deal of money by causing the destruction of others. Both Abraham and Balaam are tested ten times by God. Abraham passes each test. Balaam fails each test. The
donkey hears the angel of God. The donkey is on a higher level than the prophet Balaam. The donkey speaks the truth for only her daily bag of feed, while Balaam is prepared to utter curses for his bag of gold and silver.

Abraham's name means the "father of the nation." Balaam's name is from the contraction "bi-lo Am," which means "without a nation." Abraham was
known for his moral integrity, kindness, and loyalty to God. Balaam was a hired gun whose loyalty went to the highest bidder. The rabbis also say that his name means "swallow" (bilaam) as no matter how many times he was humiliated, he would not swallow his pride and admit that he was wrong.

Tractate Eiruvin 13B says that God can tolerate many things but He despises the proud. The Zohar points out that the last two letters of King Balak's name and the last two letters of Balaam's name spell Amelek, the eternal enemy of the Jews. The remaining letters spell Bavel, the Hebrew name for Babylonia, the first country to capture the Jews into Exile. Bavel also means to "confound" (Gen. 11:09) as we are taught in the story of the Tower of Babel.

The Midrash teaches that Balaam was one of Laban's sons. That means Balaam was Jacob's bother-in-law. Balaam is the children of Israel's uncle. The Midrash states that the stone wall that Laban and Jacob made to seal their truce is the same wall against which the donkey smashes Balaam's leg (Num. 22:25).

 

Jacob and Balaam studied together. But Balaam also learned to be hateful and jealous of Jacob from Laban. Balaam was a
gifted student of the occult. It is taught that he was the advisor to
Pharaoh who suggested enslaving the Jews. Pharaoh's other advisors were Jethro, who advised against Balaam, and Job, who remained neutral. The Talmud teaches that Balaam was one of two men who knew "da'at Elyon," God's holy knowledge. The other man was Moses. The Talmud compares Balaam
with Moses.

The Talmud teaches in Beracoth 7A that there is an instant each day when God is angry, and if you curse someone at that instant it will work. Balaam knew how to judge this specific time. This moment is "one fifty-eight thousand eight hundred and eighty-eighth part of an hour." This is 1/16 of a second. What curse could be pronounced in such a short time? The rabbis answer "kelahm," which means "destroy them." When does this time occur, they ask. During the first three hours of the day during a moment when the comb of a rooster pales as he stands on one leg, they answer.

 

Rabbi Yehoshua wanted to curse a heretic who was continually
harassing him. The Talmud reports that he therefore tied a rooster to the foot of his bed and tried to stay up all night to watch when its comb turned from red to pale. But just before that moment came he dozed off. The rabbis conclude that God never wants us to ask Him to curse anyone.

The text called Eicah Rabbah Pesikta 2 states "there never arose a philosopher the likes of Balaam son of Beor." The Midrash says that "Balaam was granted prophecy for the benefit of Israel." Yet his she-ass reprimands him when he threatens her by asking rhetorically, "Am I not your she-ass that you have ridden all of your life until this day?" (Num. 22:30).

 

Balaam is perceived rabbinically in the Midrash as the last of
the prophets of the non-Jewish nations who received revelation from God. The Midrash says he surpassed Moses in the wisdom of sorcery. Balaam's donkey not only could see the angel with his fiery sword but understood his intention and refused to go past him. Balaam, the great prophet, could not see the angel and beat his donkey three times for bowing to the will of God. This donkey not only could hear, understand, and speak, but
had a soul greater than Balaam's. Balaam was on his way to sin, and his she-ass was trying to redeem him. This was one smart ass.

Again in this parasha we see a juxtaposition of good and evil. We read about evil becoming good, about seers who are deaf and blind, and about farm animals that are astute and wise. Balaam's speaking donkey left him speechless. Balaam eventually blessed us instead of cursing us. He said, in words that we hear each Shabbat morning in our service, "How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, and your dwelling places, O Israel."


Rashi says that Balaam really wanted to curse our houses of Torah study and our prayer houses. Rashi says if one really wants to kill the Jews, one should destroy our synagogues and Torah study. Why does evil persist? Why did God give permission for Balaam to proceed toward his goal? The
Talmud in Tractate Avodah Zara 3A asks why, if God does not play games with his creations, did He not stop Balaam immediately. The Talmud answers, "In the way in which a person wants to go, God will lead him there" (Tractate Makkot 10B).

The Bible has few examples of the application of curses, but has numerous blessings expounded. The Jewish prophet Elisha cursed a group of school children who mocked him and 42 of them were eaten by two bears (2 Kings 2:23-24). And we have discussed previously the curse of the Sotah ordeal in Numbers 5:11-29 where the words of a curse written on parchment are
scraped into bitter water and given to a woman, who is suspected of adultery, to drink.

Life really is not a battle of God versus man or good versus evil. Life is an eternal battle inside each of us between what we know is right and what we know is wrong. It is man's battle against himself. We all have the power to curse and the power to bless. The Zohar also teaches that the best way a Jew can rid himself of the Amalek, Balaam, Balak, and Babylon inside us all is with yira (fear and awe) and ahavah (love) for God. The first two letters of yira, combined with the first two letters of ahavah spell "yira." The last two letters of yira and the last two letters of ahavah spell "ahavah."

 

When God tells Abraham to leave his home and "go forth" he is promised that he "shall be a blessing" (Gen.12:2-3). Traditionally, when one dies, we say "zichrono/zicrona
l'vracha--may he/she be remembered for a blessing." If Balaam's curses could be turned into blessings, perhaps we could turn our own personal adversities into opportunities for blessings as well.

At the end of parasha Balak we read that when Balaam fails to curse the Jews the Moabites send their daughters to entice the Israelites away from God. The men become attached to the idol worship of Baal P'or. The Talmud in Tractate Sanhedrin 64A explains that one worshipped this idol by defecating in front of it. One would clean one's self by using the nose of the idol for wiping.

 

 The rabbis teach that food grows from the "accursed" earth. By eating food, we take the good from it. Our body eliminates the bad. They teach that manna was from God and was pure good.
Therefore, the Jews during their 40 years in the desert did not have to eliminate bodily waste. So service to Ba'al P'or was 100 percent evil. If one could worship in this way one could free himself to do any act. Hence in next week's parasha we will read about the orgy with the Moab women.

A sad day on the Jewish calendar falls around the time of this Torah portion.  It is called the Fast of Tamuz 17.  It is the beginning of the three weeks of mourning ending with Tisha B'Av.  Tisha B'Av is the 9th of Av. Tisha B'Av is when both Temples were destroyed.


Tamuz 17 is when the walls of Jerusalem were forced open by the Romans.  During this period traditional Jews do not shave or get their hair cut. No marriages are performed. No court cases are held. There is no rejoicing with music or dance. The wearing of new clothes or eating a new fruit, which would require a "shehechiyanu" blessing, can not be done. This fast is not a 24-hour fast like Yom Kippur. It starts at sunrise and ends at sundown.

We are taught traditionally that many tragedies befell the Jewish people on the 17th of Tamuz. Moses returned from Mt. Sinai and witnessed the Golden Calf and smashed the Tablets. During the fall of the first Temple there was starvation. The animal sacrifices stopped as there were no animals left. The Romans breached the walls of Jerusalem (the Babylonians breached the walls on the 9th of Tamuz). The Talmud in Tractate Ta'anit
recounts that just before the story of Hanukkah a Syrian governor, Apustomus, publicly burned a Torah as well as placed a idol in the Second Temple. Historians think it was really a Roman officer, but the rabbis censored themselves to avoid the wrath of the Romans and called him a "Syrian." King Menashe placed an idol in the First Temple on this day. It is interesting to note from a modern historical perspective that Saddam
Hussein's nuclear reactor, from which he planned to create a bomb to drop on Israel, was called "Tamuz 17."

Our two parashat teach us that good and evil can be found paradoxically in what we have assumed to be evil and good. Evil exists in man, as God gave us the freedom to choose our actions. We can work to eradicate evil by choosing intentionally, with the force of kavenah, to make evil into good. We can with kavenah make the disallowed into the allowable. We do not have the power to keep bad things from happening to us. But we do
have the power to decide how we will react to it. We cannot change the cards that are dealt to us or the way others behave. We can not change the inevitable. However, we can control our attitude and the way we think about situations. If we "awfulize" them and make everything into a catastrophe, we will emote anxiously, angrily, fearfully, or jealously.

The Mishna teaches that "in a place where there are no leaders, strive to be a leader" (Pirkei Avot 2:06). We know wrong from right. Let our lives be for a blessing, even when we are cursed for doing so.

 

The Mishna teaches that Balaam's she-donkey was created right before the first Shabbat by God, along with Miriam's well. The Midrash teaches that God killed that multi-millennia year old talking donkey to spare mean Balaam the embarrassment of having people point to it and say "there goes dumb
Balaam's smart ass." God went to this great length to preserve the human dignity of a wicked character.

In this week's Haftarah, the prophet Micah (6:08) says that all God asks of us is to be just, do acts of loving kindness (ahavath chesed), and be humble. Let us try to live with Father Abraham's attributes of a good eye, humility, and contentedness and not Uncle Balaam's traits of an evil eye, pride, and jealousy. It is not always easy to do, but in both the short run and the long haul it is a healthier and a more spiritual way of living.

Shabbat Shalom,
RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL

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RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL:JEWISH SPIRITUAL RENEWAL: DERECH ERETZ: ALTRUISM, ADDICTIONS

RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL: JEWISH SPIRITUAL RENEWAL: DERECH ERETZ: ALTRUISM, ADDICTIONS
 
 Jewish Spiritual Renewal: Derek Eretz Zuta + Rabbah :
 
Shabbat 07/02/11
 
(aka Derech Eretz )
 
The JEWISH SPIRITUAL RENEWAL class list is hosted by Shamash: The Jewish Network a service of Hebrew College/Yeshiva
 
 
 
Shalom my dear Chaverim, Talmidim, v' Rabbanim, friends, students and fellow rabbis: An oneg, joy-filled, Shabbat, Sabbath, this coming weekend... and Shavuah Tov to you for a good and peaceful week.  For those in the USA, happy Independence Day
(aka July 4th) to you!
And lest I forget, Happy Rosh Codesh Tammuz.
 
We continue with our exploration into the Talmudic Tractates of Derek Eretz Zuta and Rabbah. (aka Derech Eretz Zuta, aka Derech Eretz Rabbah. As was mentioned, zuta is Aramaic for 'small', and rabbah is 'large').
 
Remember that Derek Eretz is not about Jewish ritual. It is about how we are to treat one another and what traits of character, middot, we are to try to develop. The lessons are universal and ecumenical.
 
For those new to the class, Baruch ha Ba! Welcome! You can access last week's class  at  
or
 
 
 
From here you will find links to preceding classes in this  series. So,  together we continue:
 
TALMUD BAVLI
 
TRACTATE DEREK
 
ERETZ ZUTA
 
(aka Derech Eretz)
 
Today we will continue with CHAPTER 2.
Talmud Bavli Tractate Derek Eretz Zuta Verse   2:8
 
"Take care that your teeth shall not shame you, and you shalt not be disgraced by  your mouth, and not cursed by your tongue, and not put to shame by your lips. Take care that you should  not need to bow to some one on account of your own words. If you wish  to become attached to your neighbor through bonds of love, always consider what good you are able to do for him. If it be your wish to be kept away from sin, always look to the result of it. If you  are craving for merits, consider carefully their details.''
 
''Take care that your teeth shall not shame you, and you shalt not be disgraced by  your mouth, and not cursed by your tongue, and not put to shame by your lips. Take care that you should  not need to bow to some one on account of your own words.  '' This verse is not about the ills of bad dental hygiene. If it appears that there is an admonition from our Sages to watch our words carefully, in every few verses of how we are to behave towards one another, we are correct.
 
The sages considered lashon ha ra to be one of the worst behaviors in a society that wished to live in peace. The rabbis taught that lashon ha ra kills three: the subject, the listener and the speaker. [Talmud Bavli Tractate  Arachin 15a].
 They further say that the listener is a worse murderer than the speaker because if the listener didn't listen, the speaker would have no one to whom to spread his gossip.{ibid}.
 
When we gossip, we shame, disgrace, and curse ourselves. When we are caught doing lashon ha ra, we then have to humiliate and humble ourselves by actually bowing down to another, begging for forgiveness. ''Be very careful with gossip because with it you will embarrass yourself, for one who denigrates is merely projecting his own fault onto someone else. It's natural to take your own faults and point them out in others.''(Ramchal: The Ways of the Righteous, The Gate of Lashon Hara)
 
No one trusts a gossip. When someone gossips to us about someone, it is guaranteed as soon as we are not in the room, the will talk badly about us. The sages tell us that gossips deny God, because when they gossip, they look around to make sure that no one can see them, but deny that The Eternal One truly can see and hear them. [Talmud Bavli Tractate Arachin 15b ].
 
It is taught that God and a gossip can not live in the same world (Midrash Devarim Rabbah 5:10) and of the so many defective behaviors, humans can do, God truly hates the sin of gossip.(Prov. 6:16-19). Although I have taught that God forgives all sins and teshuvah, repentance, renewal is open to all, Rabbi Shimon bar Yochi says that God will not forgive lashon ha ra (Zohar on Shelach 161). 
 
 As mentioned above, we dishonor ourselves when we gossip. We are shown to be jealous people with low self esteem, who have to put others down to make our egos feel better. The sages ask: "Who is honored?" They answer: " He who honors another.'' The converse is true as well . [Talmud Bavli Tractate Pirkei Avot  4:1].
 
''Which of you wants a full life? Who would like to live long enough to enjoy good things? Keep your tongue from saying evil things and your lips from speaking deceitful things.'' (Ps. 34:12-13).
 
 
''If you wish  to become attached to your neighbor through bonds of love, always consider what good you are able to do for him. '' Our sages are referring to the virtue of altruism. This part of verse 6:8 is not a recipe on getting our neighbors to love us or to be attached to us, it is a prescription for us to learn to love our neighbors and for us to feel a bond towards them. Think about what we can do for them expecting nothing back in return, perhaps not even a 'thank you.' As I have taught in Jewish Spiritual Renewal, when we live, waking each day asking God to help show us how we can be of maximum service to our fellows and God, we live a life where we cannot be disappointed from our not getting enough. We seek to give, and not get.
 
''If it be your wish to be kept away from sin, always look to the result of it. If you  are craving for merits, consider carefully their details.''  Our yetzer ha ra can move quickly and not allow us to slow down, pray, meditate and think. Actions from our ego, the absence of restraint, can cause us to do something, which will cause us harm later on. Some times that harm comes quickly, and many times years later. If we are continually in conscious contact spiritually, we are aware of our thoughts and actions, and to what those actions could lead. When we are wrapped up in our ego, worrying about ''all about me,'' it is easy to slip and fall into behaviors of our defects of character.
 
The same holds true when we are craving merits, rewards. Our ego is on overdrive and we loose site of what is truly good for us or where it can lead. Craving, and the rabbis choose this word carefully, is an addiction, a compulsion. We think we want something so badly, that we make a mess of things to get it.
Sound familiar?
 
If we considered the ludicrousness of the above, we would have never started down that path. So if we are craving something which we think has merit, value, we need to consider all of the details involved to obtain it, and what might occur after we actually do. This applies even to that second portion of peach cobbler.
 
 Next week, Baruch ha Shem, we will continue with the last verse of chapter two of  Derek Eretz Zuta .
 
We discuss the aspects of this verse on avoiding lashon ha ra, keeping our yetzer ha ra in check, and truly learning to love our fellows throughout the majority of chapters in  The Handbook to Jewish Spiritual Renewal: A Path of Transformation for the Modern Jew  as well as in most chapters of A Spiritual and Ethical Compendium to the Torah and Talmud  .
 
What are your ideas about avoiding lashon har?  How has learning that to truly love our fellows helped you in your daily relationships? How has understanding the spiritual and ethical teachings of Judaism helped you live a more joyous life?
 
Next class, Baruch ha Shem, we will continue with Derek Eretz Zuta, finishing Chapter Two. Thank you for joining me.
 
 
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