Shalom and  Peace: I invite you to learn more about living in harmony with others and the  Divine.
''Deliberate  before a word passes your lips, and be thoughtful how you should act in your  worldly affairs'' (Derek Eretz 3:1). Ah, this is so easy to write yet not so  easy to do.  
The way to  achieve this, discussed in the Modern Mussar (self-improvement) text: ''The  Handbook to Jewish Spiritual Renewal: A Path of Transformation for the Modern  Jew,'' is to mindfully walk with God throughout each day. https://www.createspace.com/1000243192  
It is easy to  teach ''watch your tongue before you use it,'' or ''look before you leap,'' but  when our ego is in charge, we will inevitably use our tongues and actions to  yield non- Godly words and behaviors.
The Bible is  filled with people walking with God. It takes mindfulness.  It involves a conscious contact. It takes  practice. It does not happen in a day or in a week. It is a lifelong process  that never stops and is never truly mastered. 
 "What does the God require of you, but to  be in awe of God, to walk in all His ways and to love Him, to serve God with all  your heart and with all your soul." (Deut. 10:12).
We spend a  few moments looking over our plans for the day. We recognize our character  defects such as ego, jealousy, self-seeking, gossip, dishonesty, selfishness and  resentments that may awaken. We ask God to keep us separated from these  defects.
 We humbly ask God to align our will with  His. We have learned about our ego and that our hearts and minds can be  "deceitful above all things" (Jer. 17:9). If ego or character defects start  emerging, we immediately ask God to remove them.   We will be able to think with loving  kindness before we speak and act.
There is an  undeniable link between God's abundant blessing and walking daily with God. When  we do not walk with God, we walk with our ego. When we ignore God's benevolence  we see imperfections. 
Walking  mindfully does not mean walking perfectly. There will be times when an  ego-driven thought will occur unconsciously, or we may be conscious of the  thought but ignore it. We may even act upon it. Or, we might owe someone amends  that needs to be made. The closer we are to God, the less apt we are to behave  negatively toward others.    
Proverbs 24:16 tells us that a person walking mindfully with God will fall seven times a day. This means that we may stumble, but we will not fail. Continue being mindful of our thoughts and actions throughout the day and ask that "God may show us the way in which we should walk and the thing we should do." (Jeremiah 42:3). Keep this question in our heart, mind and soul throughout the day and we will be walking with God. He will give us the answers. Our words and our actions will be good and just.
Rabbi Arthur  Segal is an international lecturer, author, and teacher. Visit him at www.JewishSpiritualRenewal.org .   Follow him on FaceBook at 'Arthur  L Segal', on Twitter at RabbiASegal, or his blog at  http://rabbiarthursegal.blogspot.com   .  Email at RabbiSegal@JewishSpiritualRenewal.net  
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